The journey as a parent is not an easy one. Full stop. You have probably wished for a manual a zillion times. Parents always have their child’s best interest at heart, but different factors influence the way children experience their world. Sometimes these factors are out of your control and you might feel anxious and helpless when you one day realize that all is not as it once seemed to be. As adults, parents are able to think about a problem, look at it from different angles, determine their options or speak to someone they can trust. But children are different. They are not equipped to solve their own problems and don’t have the verbal abilities to express their feelings. You already know that you know that you know that you have to trust the fuzzy feeling in your heart when it comes to your child or you child’s teacher mentioned something about being concerned about the emotional and developmental well being of your child. PANIC!!! What do I do? Where do I start? The only certain thing that you know is that you need to contact a professional that will be capable to give you some answers. So you phone the Play Therapist’s office to make the appointment. At some stage, as a parent, you have heard (or read) that play is important for children and that it benefits all the spheres of your child’s development. You can take a deep breath and relax. You are at the perfect place! Some of our greatest child development philosophers have acknowledged that children learn the most about themselves and their world when they engaged in play. Play is their language and toys are their words. Therefore it makes sense that play within a therapeutic environment will give children the opportunity to take responsibility for behaviors, establish creative solutions to problems and accept themselves and others. They will experience and express emotions, learn respect for feelings of others, cultivate relational skills with family and gain pride in their abilities by means of something that they are the masters of. What can you expect from the Play Therapy process? Play Therapy is conducted within a very save environment by a trained Play Therapist and is a proven therapeutic modality that allows children to grow, learn, heal and thrive. Your child will have a therapy session once a week for about 50 minutes. During the therapy session the Play Therapist will be able to enter your child’s world through play. This will enable the therapist to assess and understand your child’s play and development by using age appropriate mediums. The Play Therapist reflects how your child is engaging with toys and the underlying emotions that seem to accompany the actions. The idea of being in control of play can help give your child confidence. Your child may feel out of control with events playing out in the rest of his or her life, but the sense of control during playtime is important. This allows your child to gain a degree of mastery. Your child will get the opportunity to confront his problems in the play session, to develop more appropriate resolutions, gain insight about how to handle situations, learn to respect the feelings of others, accept himself, cultivate relational skills with family and gain pride in his or her own abilities. The progress can be discussed during parenting sessions, as agreed. Your child’s trust and feelings of safety within the therapist is very important and will be considered when giving feedback. During therapy your child’s behavior may appear to get worse before it improves. This is normal and due to your child going through a period of sorting through intense feelings in Play Therapy. The Play Therapist will also discuss ways you can assist your child related to observations made in Play Therapy, as well as developmental needs. The length of time a child needs Play Therapy varies from child to child and depends upon various factors.